Know of one incident involving 3 executors where one of the executors is a resident in the estate and wont give it up. Has gone as far as trying not to have the Will administered and hiding the details of the law firm involved.
One of the things with trauma councelling is that the event can triggar actions that have been dormant for quite some time in the individual, possibly childhood even. Ive had it, and it can be quite effective if done properly.
Thinking most women would want to spend xmas day with their young kids, i offered to work it for a colleague. The offer was denied cause it gave her the opportunity to work as a supervisor. Money didn't influence her decision. Strange ?